Balding hair??and im 19,tips or anything i should do or shouldnt do?

My husband is 19 as well in your position. Just embrace it. It must run in your family if it is hitting you that young. There are treatments but they are pricey. You can get surgery and it'll fix you right up or just shave your head and not worry about it again. There could also be a medical reason behind losing hair so young. See a doctor as ask about getting your Thyroid checked. Hair falling out can be a sign of an under active or over active thyroid which can be serious if not treated. As for the oiliness..wash your hair LESS. It may seem backwards but it will help. The more your hair with these shampoos full of detergents the more you hair produces it natural oils. At first it will be oily when you only wash it every other day but after about a week your hair shouldn't get oily. This is what I did to stop my hair from being gross. Now I can wash it every 2 days if I want and it still doesn't look dirty. Try a shampoo that is natural it will cost a little more but it is worth it. At Walmart they have Burt Bees Shampoo/Conditioner. It is 100% natural and has no detergantlike soap in it. This will help a lot.